People talk about ‘trying something new’ all the time. New diet. New workout routine. New ways of handling stress.
On your sexual journey, trying something new can be intimidating, daunting, and even possibly create anxiety, especially if you are trying it for your partner in order to spice things up. It may make you feel that you are pushing outside your comfort zone just to please someone else, and even trying something which doesn’t do anything for you except perhaps bring you closer to your loved one.
Is your sex life everything you want it to be?
Your mental approach and perspective at moments like this can mean everything to the outcome.
First, think about your sex life. Is it everything you want it to be? EVERYTHING?
Let’s assume that your connection is strong with your lover. When they do that special thing to you, does the world drop away, leaving you unable to hear? Is your focus narrowed to the center of your pleasure? Does the eroticism of that moment leave you breathless and sweaty, dizzy with desire for more?
If the answer is no, then perhaps there is more that you might be enjoying during the event, and that is where the ‘something new’ comes in.
Now that you know that you want more, start to think about what that ‘more’ might be, for YOU.
What do you crave? What might ring your bell just a little louder? What could you bring home as a toy or activity which would introduce you to something yet undiscovered inside of yourself, and perhaps the key to even greater satisfaction in your sex-life.
Our store is filled with items to lead you down these paths, and we are privileged to help people seek out experiences they have not yet tried, but their spirit must be willing. Wanting to try something new is the driving force.
As 2025 has finally arrived, seize your moment. Be bold. Read about new things you can try, have open discussions with your partner, and jump in!
Truths
Recognize some truths which we, as industry professionals, have known for a while:
*Vibrators are not just for ladies. They are multi-gender and often not hole-specific.
*Lady-vibrators can also be handily used on men in creative ways.
*Anal stimulation comes in many shades, but if you have a prostate, boy do you have a leg up on those of us who don’t!
*Blindfolds can be your new best friend.
*Restraints can actually be an act of trust and giving, not just taking control.
*Better toys are now available for any act you may have tried in the past and not quite taken to. New materials, lubes and instructional videos can make it a whole new experience.
*Positioning devices and slings can take the need for strength and acrobatics out of erotic acts previously unachievable.
*Remote controls can take the awkward fumbling out of an exciting event.
Every few months the sex industry births forth a bounty of creative and unusual tools, some backed by science, and some just plain fun imagination. It’s your chance to try something new.
Please remember our golden rule: Try everything twice. The first time, no one does it smoothly. The second time is more indicative of the pleasure you may receive from it. Remember what it was like to have sex when you were new at it? Repetitions will bring you closer and closer to your goal.
The Question:
I find vibrators to sometimes be too hard for me to take. Do you have a solution?
The Answer:
Many vibrators are firm to the touch, but there are are so many variations now which cater to the desire for a different sensation. Take for example Blush’s Freya. A serious thruster which takes a USB-C charger, and a supple liquid silicone tip which makes it a unique pleasure to receive. Or perhaps the Nu Sensuelle toys like Bella, Luna and Skye, which are rumbly strong vibrators but with that liquid silicone material throughout, not just the tip. There are also now “shallowing” tools with flexible insertable features, silicone-tongues added to toys like the Rose, and toys like Playboy’s Lickity Slit, which focuses on the tongue-action. If you are simply seeking a lifelike dildo, we have the amazing Renaissance line with its true real-feel material. Come in and we can show you the different textures and toys now available for your journey.
